It is common knowledge that “competing” is one of the major killers of relationship these days; you don’t give me enough money but you want me to wash your clothes, you did not take me out but you want us to get down, you are not spending enough money on me…the list goes on and on.
If your parents told you that the man you are dating is your meal ticket, then they are wrong. If you are the one who just sit and decide that your man must be your maga, then you are absolutely wrong.
1. He loves s*x. He’s a man, so stop pretending that you’re surprised that he is always hor-ny for you, it’s just normal. Given a chance, he would do it anytime and anywhere. So you better stop denying him that “thing” especially if you gonna make noise when he gets himself another lady.
2. Your man may have a small “thing”. It’s not about how deep he can go in you, it’s about how deep his love is for you.
3. You shouldn’t be acting up every time he comes quick, you should be happy he came, because that simply means you are too awesome to delay. After all, its not about how long he can last in bed, it’s about how long the relationship will last.
4. Don’t ever compare him with your Ex. If your Ex was so good, why did you guys leave yourselves?
5. If he’s good in bed, be grateful. If he’s poor in bed, talk to him. He’ll do something about it.
6. Never attack him verbally in public. It’s a huge offense! Phela y’all are lovers, not politicians.
7. Never answer his calls, if they wanted to talk to you, they would’ve called you instead.
8. If he has money, he’ll spend it with you. If he’s comfortable at the moment, kneel and pray for him.
9. Don’t be acting up, anytime his wallet is empty. He came into your life to love you, not to bail you out.
10. Always remember that he came to attend your heart affairs, not financial affairs.
#Take note: Nobody is perfect, meet him halfway.
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